funerals
Our sincere condolences during this difficult time. While these days may be challenging, they can also bring healing for you and your family. We will pray for your deceased loved one, asking that they be freed from any hindrance on their journey home to the Father. We will also pray for you as you grieve.
first steps
Once your loved one has passed away, it is important to contact a Funeral Home. They will assist with the transfer of the body, arrange for funeral rites and burial, and help with various documentation needed for banks, courts, and government agencies. The funeral home will then contact our parish to coordinate the funeral.
Our priority is to serve our registered parishioners, and we will do everything possible to accommodate your needs. Please download our “Guide to Planning a Funeral” below.
Respect for the Body of the Deceased
Catholics believe in the Resurrection of the entire person—body and soul. The body of a deceased person is treated with the greatest respect. Traditionally, bodies are buried or placed in a mausoleum. Cremation is permitted, provided it is not done out of disrespect for the body. We strongly suggest that cremation takes place after the funeral, although we realize this is not always possible. Having the body present for the funeral can aid in the healing process.
The cremated remains (ashes) should also be treated with respect and buried or placed in a columbarium, never scattered, separated, or made into objects such as jewelry. If bringing the ashes to the church for the funeral, they should be in a dignified and simple container—please avoid using a cardboard box.
Planning the Funeral
Once we receive notification of the funeral, we will reach out to the next-of-kin or their representative to meet with the friar who will preside at the funeral. We will provide the readings for review and discuss any favorite church hymns you may want to include. Please note that secular music will not be played in the church, and all music must be live—no recorded music is allowed.
We invite you to meet with us in person at the parish office (ideal), or we can arrange to meet online or by phone.
I’m not Catholic but my loved one was
For Catholics, having a funeral Mass is very important. We understand that this might be unfamiliar to you, and we want to ensure that the funeral is as welcoming as possible for everyone in attendance. Please discuss your concerns with the friar who is assisting you. Together, we can explore the best way to honor your loved one. In some cases, a funeral service at the church without a Mass may be a suitable option. We are here to listen and support you, so please feel free to share your thoughts and feelings with us.
This is a church of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Brooklyn, entrusted to the care of the Franciscan Friars Conventual working with the Franciscan Missionary Sisters of Assisi.
